
Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
My bisexuality is undeniable for other reasons... I am emotionally, intellectually, physically, attracted to both males and females.
I have experienced attractions to females that I can't deny. I don't believe the term "bi" means that you have the feelings of a bi person but don't do anything about it; nor do I believe the term "bisexual" means you lead the life of a bi person (i.e., you act on your desires). I believe bisexual is bisexual, bottom line. If you have these strong attractions that are undeniable, I believe it is what it is, and there's no two ways about defining the word.
Only you can make the decision of whether you are bisexual or not.
I had a first female crush, as it seems you do... and at that time I wasn't sure what to think. Then I had a second...then a third...ect. I decided that it was something I couldn't write off as coincidence.
I do not intend to have a relationship with another female, but I still consider myself bisexual.
Have strength and confidence in yourself... love yourself no matter what... this is life and sometimes things come up and confuse us. But we can shine through it and be strong.
Best to you.
for me..i have always known that i was bi...there really was never any question..by the time i was 19 i had my first experience with a female. just my opinion, and not my experience, but i think that it's certainly possible to not be bi just because you have some feelings for another woman i think that can happen to almost any woman at some point...at least thats what i've heard...
I did the whole threesome thing in college. I've always found beauty in women. But I never thought of myself as bisexual. Why? Because I NEVER saw myself as ever being interesrted in a "relationship" with a woman - at least, not until recently. This poses a huge problem for me seeing as I'm MARRIED. (That's an entirely different topic...).
To be honest, I don't like labels. Even today, I don't actually call myself bisexual. I've always considered myself as being sexually open. Of course, now that I've developed feelings for a woman and have experienced a new and completely different sexual experience with this woman, I find myself questioning a lot.
I don't think you should worry about whether or not you are bi. It's not about being attracted to a man or a woman, but the person. I love my husband dearly. I have no desire or inclination to end my marriage to him. However, having the feelings I do for a woman certainly complicates things a bit.
I don't think you should rush into a sexual experience with a woman just to test out to see if you're bi, but you probably won't know for sure if you actually enjoy sex with a woman until you do it. Personally, I hated it at first. I felt completely clueless. It wasn't until recently (after I had feelings for her) that I really enjoyed being with a woman sexually.
You will figure it out. It will take time. You have plenty of time to find out who you are and who you want to live out your life with on this earth. Focus on the person you love, not what gender they are. If you find yourself in a serious relationship with a woman someday, then you will have your answer.
If you're just looking for a casual sexual experience with a woman from time to time but only ever see yourself with a man -- then I'd say it's safe to say you're bi-curious or as I like to joke, "Diet Bi" or "Bi-Lite" :)
I hope my confusing tirade helps. :)
bisexual doesn't mean you go
to bed with everybody you find
attractive. It simply means
you find members of both
genders attractive. You
see the beauty in as many
people as possible, totally.
cuz im lez an i should kno about dat .. how do u feel around her is it just like bein wit a guy ..