To me, being bisexual isn't defined by having sexual experiences with your same gender.

My bisexuality is undeniable for other reasons... I am emotionally, intellectually, physically, attracted to both males and females.

I have experienced attractions to females that I can't deny. I don't believe the term "bi" means that you have the feelings of a bi person but don't do anything about it; nor do I believe the term "bisexual" means you lead the life of a bi person (i.e., you act on your desires). I believe bisexual is bisexual, bottom line. If you have these strong attractions that are undeniable, I believe it is what it is, and there's no two ways about defining the word.

Only you can make the decision of whether you are bisexual or not.

I had a first female crush, as it seems you do... and at that time I wasn't sure what to think. Then I had a second...then a third...ect. I decided that it was something I couldn't write off as coincidence.

I do not intend to have a relationship with another female, but I still consider myself bisexual.

Have strength and confidence in yourself... love yourself no matter what... this is life and sometimes things come up and confuse us. But we can shine through it and be strong.

Best to you.

i agree with elz i don't think that having an actual experience is a requirement for being bisexual. being bi is usually something decided for you choosing act on it is a choice you make.

for me..i have always known that i was bi...there really was never any question..by the time i was 19 i had my first experience with a female. just my opinion, and not my experience, but i think that it's certainly possible to not be bi just because you have some feelings for another woman i think that can happen to almost any woman at some point...at least thats what i've heard...

well i think that if your attracked to another female you could be bi but if youve never been in a sexual relationship then you really wont know you could just be bi courious you have to try to see if you are really if the experience is good then you are if it aint you might of just been courious! my advice is find out!

Is there a difference between being sexually attracted to a female as a female vs. being mentally and emotionally attracted to one? I ask because I believe people can be bi-curious or even just plain sexually open and not actually be bisexual. I believe to be truly bisexual, you actually develop feelings for someone of the same gender. If you can see yourself in a relationship with a woman (as you would with a man) then I believe that confirms you are bi. This is purely my opinion - it's not law and may not be true for everyone.

I did the whole threesome thing in college. I've always found beauty in women. But I never thought of myself as bisexual. Why? Because I NEVER saw myself as ever being interesrted in a "relationship" with a woman - at least, not until recently. This poses a huge problem for me seeing as I'm MARRIED. (That's an entirely different topic...).

To be honest, I don't like labels. Even today, I don't actually call myself bisexual. I've always considered myself as being sexually open. Of course, now that I've developed feelings for a woman and have experienced a new and completely different sexual experience with this woman, I find myself questioning a lot.

I don't think you should worry about whether or not you are bi. It's not about being attracted to a man or a woman, but the person. I love my husband dearly. I have no desire or inclination to end my marriage to him. However, having the feelings I do for a woman certainly complicates things a bit.

I don't think you should rush into a sexual experience with a woman just to test out to see if you're bi, but you probably won't know for sure if you actually enjoy sex with a woman until you do it. Personally, I hated it at first. I felt completely clueless. It wasn't until recently (after I had feelings for her) that I really enjoyed being with a woman sexually.

You will figure it out. It will take time. You have plenty of time to find out who you are and who you want to live out your life with on this earth. Focus on the person you love, not what gender they are. If you find yourself in a serious relationship with a woman someday, then you will have your answer.

If you're just looking for a casual sexual experience with a woman from time to time but only ever see yourself with a man -- then I'd say it's safe to say you're bi-curious or as I like to joke, "Diet Bi" or "Bi-Lite" :)

I hope my confusing tirade helps. :)

i feel bisexuality cd mean u bein confused or bein questioned .. u mabe even curious. but jus cd mean u like both sexes u dnt need sexual experiences to be bisexual u jus feel tht u r and attracted to both sexes.

There's a lot of misconceptions (I hope that's the right term) about "bisexual". Being
bisexual doesn't mean you go
to bed with everybody you find
attractive. It simply means
you find members of both
genders attractive. You
see the beauty in as many
people as possible, totally.

SAME THING HAPPEN TO ME LAST YEAR THERE WAS THIS NEW GIRL I THOUGHT SHE WAS REALLY COOL SO I STARTED TO HANG THEN SHE CAME OUT THAT SHE WAS BI I WAS LIKE WOW BUT MORE AND MORE STARTED TO THINK WHY I REALLY BECAME HER FRIEND I JUST COULDNT STOP THINKING ABOUT THIS CHICK BUT I DRIFFTED ..I REGRET IT ALOT U SHOULDN'T PASS SOMETHING UP U SHOULD ACT ON FEELINGS BCAUSE U MAY LOOK BACK AND MISS THAT CHANCE AT LEAST I DID ..

yah but sometimes its better i mean i didnt give up on this girl i feel in love with and all she ended up doin was hurtin me and now im sittin here tryin to recover from haven my heart broke! but if you guys were ment to be togather it will happen no matter what!!!!

well do u think u want to have sex wit her .
cuz im lez an i should kno about dat .. how do u feel around her is it just like bein wit a guy ..

picture ur self kissing her and doing more things with her. does that gross you out or make you uncomfortable? if it doesnt then there is a pretty good chance you are but if it does i would say its safe to say its just this girl and you will get over it. also have you ever thought this about another girl? have you ever considered yourself with another girl? have you thought girls were cute or hot? if the answer is yes to more than one of these ?'s it is possible.

if these feelings persist then theres a good chance that you are bisexual. you may have to explore your feelings to know for sure. we all have fantasys but actually doing it will be telling. be glad your young and can figure this out at an early age. best to you. hugs

Well, you don't necessarily have to act on those feelings if you don't want to. It all boils down to how you want people to percsive you and how you want to perceive yorself

IF U HAVE NEVER HAD SEX WITH A WOMAN, then your gay!, but if u find women attractive, and u look at women in a lustful way, and think about them, and fantasy about them, then u may be bi, but till u have sunk your pecker, into a woman, then your still gay, so go have some fun, check it out, it's really good, yummy!, then ask yourself, did i like it, or not?