Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
i am attracted to women and men. i have only been sexually intimate with men (except my sexual abuser who was a female). sometimes when i masturbate i think about women and i catch myself checking girls out all the time (i even watch lesbian porn sometimes), but i am not mentally or emotionally attracted to women, only physically. am i bi or just fucked up?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Maybe you are physically attracted to women at the moment but haven't yet found a woman that you are emotionally attracted to. I am sure you aren't emotionally attracted to all men...
Bi is just a label, and one that I am struggling with too. I believe that there is a continuum between totally straight and totally gay and that most people are somewhere in between. It doesn't make you odd, it just makes you on the spectrum. I think its fluid and people's sexualities change. My ex and I were in about the same place when we got together many years ago, liking 75% men and 25% women. Now she is 75% women and 25% guys. I am still more or less where I was.
Really I think it is important to be OK with being where you are. Being comfortable with having same sex attractions and opposite sex attractions. I think its tough. Once you are comfortable with exactly where you are you can explore where that is more. There is nothing wrong with how you feel.
Hugs your way. I too was abused by a same sex perp and have issues with my sexuality. I too wonder if i am bi or just fucked up. There is what they call a repetition compulsion - an effort to re-live and re-process the abuse. Maybe - maybe not. For me I don't think it is about the abuse. Did the abuse make me bi - I don't think it matters and is not worth my time. I am what I am.