you are right when you said you have a lot of life to live yet and possibly more relationships. At your age i already new what my status was...but i've always dealt with it in a way that it didn't matter what sex the person was that i ended up with as long as they cared about me and it was the person i was meant to be with..i've been married to a great guy now for 12 years been with him for 16 and i never looked back..i've got some issues now i'm dealing with for the first time, but the point is as long as your feelings for this person are true it doesn't matter.

if you love him what are your reasons for thinking about a breakup? It seems as though you are looking to catagorize yourself one way or another...and that will never happen if you in fact feel the same way for both sexes..don't put that stress on yourself...just go with the flow...live your life and enjoy what comes along with it!

I don't want to break up with him because I do love him.

i don't want this to come across wrong because i don't mean it that way but what exactly are you confused about then? how you'd fit in if you did split up some day? your young you've got your whole life ahead of you don't worry about it before the issue even presents itself..who knows it may never become an issue...

Well I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. I'm prepared for the fact that that may never happen.

Before we were together I had feelings for mostly girls, not really guys. I met him and he was a good friend, then my best friend and then my boyfriend. I love him with my whole heart, but if we broke up I don't know what would happen. I'm sorry I'm just confused.

I had crushes on both girls and guys growing up.... I was in love with my best friend for 6 years. SHe died of Leukemia. It sucks I miss her so much. I met my husband married him had kids and felt I was missing something.

Then I healed myself from missing her and realized it was not a woman I needed I wanted her.. when I got past that I realized just how happy I was with my husband. We have been married since 1994.

Do I miss the idea sure....But I am IN LOVE!!!!

That is what matters. Some people can not be bi and monogomous they see the flaw in that the male can not be the same emotionally or physically as woman can and with a woman she may not be emotionally what she needs.

Take your time I will tell you I was 19 when I married my husband so don;t count him as one of the what will be many!!!

Not2sure- Thank you that's the exact answer I was wanting. I don't see how I can love and like both sexes. That's what confused me. I would love to spend the rest of our lives together, but something just doesn't feel completely right at the moment.

We are long distance so it could be that and I'm sure it'll improve next year. But thank you

Glad i could help.

Believe me when you meet the RIGHT person EVERYTHING Feels right and makes sence. i don't care male or female long distances DO NOT HELP. Absence makes the heart grow fonder when it is only short term a week 2 or 3... more then that It usually fails.

I'm pretty sure it's the long distance. Thanks it makes a lot more sense now.