Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
I've just started thinking that I might be Bi. Recently at a Halloween party I had a little bit to drink, and that led to things happening with some girls at the party. I ended up kissing/making out with a couple girls and I know that I wanted to do more. I'm now thinking that I might want to be with girls, even though sexually I'm still attracted to guys. I'M SO CONFUSED!!! I feel like I'm so lost and I don't know what's going on in my life. I wish I could figure things out but I don't know how! Can anyone help???
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
When I was 8, I had my first big crush and it was a male. At 11, I experienced falling in love for the first time. It took 3 years to get over him, and I still have a feeling that's unmatched when I hear his name. When I was 13, I had another major crush on a guy. But then around age 14, I started to find girls sexually attractive. I'd find myself trying to act 'macho' around ones that I found attractive, and it was like it was out of my control. I found myself desiring things that, before, I only desired regarding males.
It was very confusing. When I was 14, I had my first female crush. I kept it to myself, of course. I am now 17 and have had a few memorable female crushes. It's the whole attraction. I was attracted to these girls' gorgeous bodies, their sweet personalities, and I wanted to care for them. Just like my male crushes had felt, only with a more feminine vibe, I think you know what I mean.
Being a Christian, it's very hard for me to accept the fact that I find both genders sexually attractive. But it seems all signs point to me being bi, I can't deny that.
I once asked a lesbian girl for advice about all this... she simply told me to accept the fact that I am bi-curious, but just don't think too much about it. Don't worry about it. Don't let it consume you.
Go about your everyday life like you always did. If you're like me and don't plan to act on your bisexual desires, then have strength when you find a female you're attracted to. Just don't get too attached. It's ok to think she's beautiful and great. In my honest opinion, the determining factor is whether you act upon the desires or not.
I choose not too, but I still have trouble admitting my bisexuality. It can be quite a struggle inside.
Best wishes to you.