I am such a state of emotional unstability. I have been disowned by my family. I have no friends. My current BF is the love of my life, but at the same time is too NICE..... He lets me take the brunt of all of the people HE knows because he cannot tell them to go when they need to. I tell them to go, after he leaves the room to get in the shower or something. I understand that this is a problem for him, and am willing to work with it. Only he gets defensive. MY whole problem is based on the fact that I have been in abusive relationships, and feel like I am not going to take any more crap from anyone. He just sits and nods, and lets them stay and talk on and on, because he just doesnt know how to say "go". Other than that he is perfect for me, I love him very much, he is very supportive of all of my treatments and therapy. He is just too nice... And when I call him on it he gets defensive. What should I be doing? He hates it when I put myself down, yet he makes me look like the bad guy to his friends that come over and wont leave.....
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