Bipolar Disorder Support Group

Bipolar disorder is not just a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders marked by periods of abnormally high energy and euphoria, often accompanied by bouts of clinical depression. This is the place to talk about your experience with bipolar disorder, learn from others' experiences, and find support.

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Why send a hug and tell someone...

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...to fuck off? Isn't that hypocritical? I am new here and have not sent or received many hugs but I certainly won't be sending them if I want to tell somebody to fuck off.

I know that bp can make us all do strange things. Is this the norm' for bp?

If this is the way we communicate on here please tell me why I should fuck off.

Please don't criticize my illness because we all are in the same boat. Some of us have more symptoms than others that's all. We are all the same really. Sad but true.
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Who has done that? I had a nasty pastie send me a mean hug ripping me about my Dx too. What is it with people?
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it's a fug...a fuck off hug, haha
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People are strange, especially BP people. Delete the hug and forget it. I'll send you a nice one for a week....if I remember...damm brain..lol!
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Nice tail Suze :))
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was it someone you know?
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Why thanks you Rosie....extra twirl just for you!
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That is not the norm! I don't know what kind of putz would do that, but most of us are not of that ilk. Brush it off and forget about it. If it happens again, tell doug you're being harrassed.
peace, teresa
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I saw it. Did you respond to anything that he said in another post? No excuse for that behavior just wondering where he is coming from.
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GrammaR I'm glad you asked that because I couldn't think why he would send that. Yes I did. His was the first post I read when I joined and it made me wonder whether to stay or not. The post is: In the spirit of full disclosure... My reply is no. 66.

I just got this hug from him with no reason as to telling me to fuck off and couldn't think why? Thanks for that. I think he's a bit stressed because of his situation with the being sued that he posted about. I will pray for him.
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Im sure he didn't mean it, like you said he is ultra stressed at the moment.
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Thanks for the replies. I've sent him a hug telling him that I realise about his stress. Hopefully, we can put this behind us and start over.
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