To me it sounds normal. It sounds as if you are "settling" into a relationship. If you love him as much as it sounds like you do, then try your best to stop the knit picking. You two will be fine. If you do knit pick, just laugh it off as being two old married people.

thanks i hope thats what it is thanks for the advice

I feel this way too sometimes, but rather than start fights I usually neglect the people around me. I think that it comes down to the same thing though. I just grow bored of the everyday mundane so I leave and find something more interesting and usually I hurt people in the process. The best advice I could give you is remain aware of it so that you can recognize when you're picking fights over nothing. Awareness might not make you feel better about yourself or the situation, but it will keep you from sabotaging aspects of your life that you don't want to lose.

yea i think thats why i pick fights once im in a relationship an it no longer interestin but just is what it is an i know everything about the person i get bored but if i keep doin that ill never be happy ill always be alone an just goin from one person to another an i dont want to do that cause im so happy with him but its just my natural reaction to pick up an leave when things get old