Unfortunateltly, even my wife was like this, which is why she is now my exe

I find you absolutly adorable, very funny and very helpful along with very honest and sincere when you need to be. I'm not running yet ;)

I notice it in my journals, when I'm up all is good and many comments when down then sometimes none. Maybe they don't know what to say as there is really nothing they can do, but it would be nice to know they are there. I love you up or down, you loon!

im never running. only to run and jump on you to blow a raspberry on ur belly.

and yes.

i hate that.

Hey Fazer, you are a good egg.

Yep, some people leave our lives, I've been on both sides of that one.

Cheers to you.

alot of us do seem to have that talent,getting on other peoples nerves,Ya ive even had people say"which one of you am I talking to today?" that hurt bad its me its all me there all me.

i had someone on here tell me i was too negitive when i was down. he said he couldn't be my friend anymore and he isn't.

someone else on here told me he didn't want to be around me if i was down but he sure expect me to be there for him and i usually was.

People are like an aggie sex manual....

In, out, repeat.

Thanks guys, I wasn't asking for a pep talk but it's nice! hhaha, I just wondered if other people did it too, the art of making people leave! kind of performance art gone wrong.

i thought this thread was going to be about seeing ppl that disappear, which also keeps happening

I have you pictured as a cute wittle squirrel..not scary at all...I'm not going anywhere...
It's not you..it IS just them..We've all experience this.

I like you up or down or horizontal or twisted..I know that doesn't help a lot in RL interaction..but I'm here.

I know what you mean about people up and leaving. When I was really down and out a while back and didn't have the energy to be cheerful and send hugs and such, some "friends" who apparently need a lot of attention, even in the cyberworld, immagine how draining they must be in person, dropped me from their friends list. It was kool though, my real friends stepped up to the plate big time and I met more compassionate, less needy souls to fill their places. You know what they say about fair weather friends.

My family disappeared, except for my Dad and stepmom -- whose house I am now at. They live in SC and I live in OH so I don't get to see them that often. They remember the early yrs of my bp , HS and college when I had mood swings, ups and downs, but I am pretty stable now. My Dad is 86 yrs old and doesn't understand mental illness, but he is cool with me.
My sister understands, but still has nothing to do with me, like she is ashamed to have me around. Only a few real true friends have stuck with me through the years.

I'm not sure if you're a country music fan, but there's a song that this reminds me of and I've loved it since it came out.

"...Everybody wants to slap your back
wants to shake your hand
when you're up on top of that mountain
But let one of those rocks give way then you slide back down look up
and see who's around then

This ain't where the road comes to an end
This ain't where the bandwagon stops
This is just one of those times when
A lot of folks jump off

You find out who your friends are
Somebody's gonna drop everything
Run out and crank up their car
Hit the gas, get there fast
Never stop to think 'what's in it for me?' or 'it's way too far'
They just show on up with their big old heart
You find out who your friends are..."

"Find Out Who Your Friends Are" by "Lawrence Tracy"

Think that is absolutely terrible...we are all fragile and dropping someone as a friend could have serious repercussions.
I do not keep up with friends as I should though when I'm down, either. But I'd never delete anyone!
BTW, you are totally unscary to me :-)