I think we must make the decision as to who we tell on a case-by-case basis. I tend to be rather open about it because I feel it's my small way of fighting against the stigma. But it's such a personal choice. Some people will never get it, sadly.

I guess I trusted someone by sharing my story of BP, and now all of a sudden "everything" is my "fault" because of BP. I am selective with who I tell, and I may tell no one else. Thanks Elaine!

I just do what I need to do for me. I,m very careful who I share my illness with.

Such a good question as there is ALWAYS those who would use your illness against you. Very few understand that we as victims of the disorder did not choose to have it any more than one chooses to contract cancer. Unfortunatly, this illness also comes with a stigma attatched and most will not accept it as such. I have been ridiculed by most I have shared with (behind my back), and have learned through the pain not to share any longer. If I told someone I had terminal cancer, they would feel sympathy and care for me while with this illness I am considered "crazy". For your own well being, be very selective with whom you share it with.

At this point in my life and after coming to this site I don't care who understands thats the honest truth. It came from so many years of self contousness and worry about fitting in. Now I don't give a dam.

I'm very careful about who I tell. It's a sticky situation as you can't anticipate their response no matter how well you know them. So far, I've been lucky recently to those I have told, especially at work. I'm not shunned. They have been very supportive and kind. The guy who works for me sometimes feels he needs to walk on eggshells. I assured him to continue to joke around with me. I would kindly tell him if it wasn't the day to do so. There are some people at work I will not tell because of big mouths. Thankfully I know who they are.

I have always taken full responsibility for my actions, I guess what I meant was, what happens when you DO take responsibility, and always try to do right, and admit if you didn't, but someone still insists that s/he has done NO wrong b/c BP is the problem and therefore the peson who has BP is at fault?
It is hard to tell people. you are all correct, and I am glad for those that have people they can trust. Thanks!

I understand what yoou are going through just a few of my family understands. It is not our fault, that is what I try to tell myself when I come across some one who dosen't understand. Always try to be your best. Thats all we can do.

you know, until i come to a point where my bp is actually affecting me,, it's not necessary to wear the T-shirt or anything... i tell my friends that i have trouble with anxiety, because that actually is my main problem.. but i see where ur coming from.. because it IS a label, and once ppl have it on u, they can use it against u

so i would just avoid even mentioning it, unless it's someone that medically needs to know,, or with close friends, make sure they are knowledged and that every mistake u make isnt a 'bp blowup' or something like that.....