I found that my husband has been on a singles web site. I confronted him and of course denial. We have been together 15 yrs, he has AIDS since 1997, And is a recovering Crank Addict. I just kept him out of prison for 5 yrs, this last time. I didn't react the way I would have along time ago. I have many tools to deal with this stuff. I have to say what hurts me the most is how this makes my son feel. He has been through so much and I wish for him to have a stable teenage yrs. He doesn't deserve to lose a parent again when he just gained his sick on that came back to life with his recovery. I have spoken again with the other half and expressed that he at least respect our son and me and if that is what he wants than please talk about it and let me know. We have also been going through marraige counseling and I said that our counseling has taught us to treat each other with respect so please treat me with respect. What advice do all of you think I deserve?
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