OK. I usually give advice on the issue of relationships but I find myself needing some. I have known this guy for 12 years and just a little over 3 months ago we started dating. I am happy to say that dating your best friend has major perks. He already knows EVERYTHING about me. Before we started dating he made the decision to go to Devry University. I was so happy for him and happy that he made such a great decision for his life. He got all A's his first quarter there. The honor society even wants him. I told him he should go for it. Here is the issue: I know how important school can be to mold your future, I went to college myself. I know how much time and effort you need to put towards school. My fear is that our relationship is going to affect his schooling. He has attempted to reassure me that if he needed to he would cut back our time together to get certain things done for school. As his friend I have no problems with that. As his girl friend, I do. I know that I am a person who can demand a lot of attention at odd moments (hello I am bipolar) and I do not want that to affect him and what he wants to make out of his future. Any ideas? Should I stay? Seek out more help to get over my needy moments? Should I end the relationship? Help.
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