I'm sorry to hear of your difficulties. i will keep you in my prayes and thoughts. I wish things were better right now, however, I can only give you a few kind words.Try to keep your head up, I know a new baby is hard, but try to rest and take care of yourself when the little one is resting.You will benefit greatly from the rest as well. HUGS from Arkansas

14 week old babies are hard even on the healthiest people. To much at once for you. Don't panick. Let the baby cry about 10 min. That's their excercise. Keep your cool and breath. Poor mom it's alot but you know you can do it. Stay in here until you feel better or someone calls back. Of course with an eye on the baby;)

I used to swaddle my daughter and put her in her swing, then I would step outside (not too far) and do some breathing excersizes, or scream, or whatever to calm myself before I would even go near her... Crying is not going to hurt her! It is good for her! But if you need a minute away, please take it!

Swaddling always helped with my babies too. Our babies can sense our feelings. I'm sure that once you settle down, the baby will too. We are all here for you and our prayers go out to you and baby. xoxoxo

awwwwwwww thankyou so much. i got her settled like 15 minutes ago i took anice 10 minute breather.

makes it worse i done it twice befor ebut u do forget how much it goes through u.

onemore thing what is swaddling?

What does it mean to swaddle a baby?
Swaddling is the art of snugly wrapping your baby in a blanket for warmth and security. It can keep him from being disturbed by his own startle reflex, and it may even help him stay warm and toasty for the first few days of life until his internal thermostat kicks in. Most important, it can help to calm your baby.

Nowadays, you probably won't leave the hospital without a little lesson in this technique. Try it, after you've made sure your baby isn't hungry, wet, or tired. It can be used to help settle your baby down when he's overstimulated or when he just needs to feel something close to the tightness and security of the womb.

Once your baby is about a month old you might want to stop swaddling him while he's awake, as it may interfere with mobility and development in older babies. It's fine to keep swaddling your baby for naps and nighttime if he seems to sleep better that way. He'll let you know by crying or kicking when he no longer wants to be bundled up. How do I perform this cozy art?

Lay a blanket on a flat surface and fold down the top-right corner about 6 inches.

Place your baby on his back with his head on the fold.

Pull the corner near your baby's left hand across his body, and tuck the leading edge under his back on the right side under the arm.

Pull the bottom corner up under your baby's chin.

Bring the loose corner over your baby's right arm and tuck it under the back on his left side. If your baby prefers to have his arms free, you can swaddle him under the arms. This gives him access to his hands and fingers.

swaddleing is went you do the wrap with a blanket like the nurses do in Hosp. Kind of make a triangle out of the blanket fold the bottom up then wrap around one side then the other a tuck it. Not to tight but snug. It feels like the womb and comforts them.

i do that but i never knew it was called swaddling.

thankyou (hugs))))))