i suffer from paranoia.ok let me explain my g/f won't make love to me rarely because she says she don't feel safe with me she is scared i will flip out.i have never flipped out while making love.
but this has made me paranoid that she might be seeing someone else.
she talks about this woman from work alot then said we both was going round this womans house for coffee i wasn't asked i was told.
anyway that was the same morning she came home with a soft toy(a microwave warmer)that this woman had given her then took it to bed with her that night refusing to remove it from the bed cos the smell from it was making me feel sick(i had a stomach bug).
i talked to her about my paranoia and how all this was triggering it off big time.she just said i wasn't going to stop her having friends and said she was still going round this workmates house for coffee whether i went or not.i see no comprimise at all with her.she even kept asking me if i had seen this soft toy that has gone missing and accussing me of taking it.
how do i make her relalize what she is doing to me mentally why won't she understand.i can't go on like this.she knows what is triggering me i've told her straight.please any advice?