Does anyone else on here have a spouse that has been unsupportive,and how did you convince them that bp is not an EXCUSE for what you've done to them but a reason? How long did it take for things to get back to "loving"? Or did it ever? I am starting to see that I might just have to let him go...but i sure don't want to. I'm like that..i'm not a quitter. And i take my vows very seriously.