While I know I'm lucky to still be married, my wife shows little support. I email her, give her a note, tell her how I feel, etc. I never get a " can I do anything for you", " it'll pass, hang on", "I'll help you out with your chores", "I understand - you don't need to do anything". I've sent her definitions of BP and think she reads them but never comments back. Anytime I can't join family dinners, she gets mad.
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