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So angry I could spit

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I am so angry at a person who takes total advantage of my bp. I would appreciate any comments on how to overcome these feelings going on inside of me right now. This person is a life-long friend and we had a falling out just a few months ago and I stopped all contact with her. I found out that she is moving back north and felt I should, for my own sanity, make peace with her so I e-mailed and took responsibility for my part in the situation, and wished her well. Well she took the ball and went with it, blaming me for all of her bad feelings and refusing to take responsibility for her own behavior in this . I am furious, please help me with this.
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deleted_user
I'd leave her be.You tried.She abused that opportunity to respect your moves.
Fuck it.Move on.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You did the mature, healthy thing when you took responsibility for your actions with regards to the situation. That does not however mean that she is able to do the same, apparently she is not as evolved or in touch with herself and her feelings to reciprocate. Kudos to you for being all you can be...forgive her for her inadequacies and don't expect much...you won't be disappointed
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deleted_user
i agree move on...

or until this all passes by go punch a punching bag until u cant take it anymore.. works for me
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i say ignore her if she is gonna be that way then just stop talkin to her if she takes advantage of u just give her the cold shoulder and go on with ur life
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sounds like she is no friend... give up on it for awhile maybe later she will grow up theres nothing you can do to change her mind
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have to agree with Pluck on this one. you are being used as a excuse for all her problems...You have enough to deal with without her shit as well...
dobiedots
dobiedots
Angie!!!!!!! Where's the baseball bat?????
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im hiding the baseball bat.. people have to get there own bats lol
Shelly4
Shelly4
You did a wonderful thing. Now let it be what you wanted it to be. Let it be the peace that you took responsibility for your part and tried to make peace with her. It is her own issues that cause her to blame it all on you. Dont let her control your emotions. Dont give her that control. Back away knowing you did what you intended and she has issues that only she can be responsible for. You cant fix her. You are a wonderful friend and it took courage to do what you did. Give yourself a hug and move on.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I so thank each one of you who replied!! I was laughing by the time I finished the list.lol. I sure needed the support of all of you. XO
deleted_user
deleted_user
Always takes two. You are or sound to be much healthier than your friend. Does she need meds???????
deleted_user
deleted_user
She abuses her meds and refuses help. She is very sick and I need to remember that in order to keep my own sanity.
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i am soooooooo with shelley on this one... you were the bigger person more than likely on a much more advanced plane of existence than your 'friend'. some people will never reach that plateau. all you can do is pat yourself on the back for not being petty and move on. you did the right thing. give yourself a break. you deserve it.
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people orbit in and out of our lives at regular intervals, some pass by regularly, some rarely, and every often one goes super nova.. lol. time to brush the sand from your feet, put on your sexiest shades and bust a move baby
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I'd let her go. She sounds like a bad friend. You don't need that crap.
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