I know I posted this on another group but haven't gotten any answers so I thought I'd try here.I am scared to have sex with my boyfriend because I was sexually abused in the past.He knows this and is very patient and caring.I feel guilty that I am making him wait so long and it doesn't seem fair.I do really want to have sex and I do trust him completely it's just that I have terrible flashbacks of the abuse.He said he starting to find to hard waiting coz he is getting aroused by me.I'd like to see a therapist but they are expensive and I don't really wanna go to group therapy.So what should I do?
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