A week or so ago, my roomate answered a call that was meant for me, which happened to be my little cousin. She proceeded to tell him that, she was going to slit her wrists that night while sobbing and in general having a breakdown on the phone. So needless to say my little cousin called me immediately to tell me what had happened because he was freaked out. So then I went to my roomate and told her that I was going to have to tell someone about her plan. She immediately started cussing me out and promising to never talk to me again, "I'll hate you forever if you do that". So i said "well I guess you'LL have to hate me we're telling someone". so we did. She continued cussing me out (which I wa fine with, I can see how she saw it as a betrayal, but I did what I thought I had to do and I'd do it again), but then she starts going on about how my cousin's an asshole, and I just loose it. Now maybe it's not nice to tell your suicidal roomate to go fuck herself, but hey she shouldv'e shut her hole about my cousin. So we've since made up. Just things aren't quite the same between us. She's appologized to my cousin and told me that she thought I acted as a friend, and she would've done the same for me, but I just don't understand why things are still so strained if this is the case. Sorry to ramble so long... Any thoughts.
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