Revenge is never sweet, my friend.
All your wasted energy on bad thoughts can create bad Karma for yourself...Let it go, Think good thoughts and good Karma will come...hope this helps..sent you a hug!

I think you should stay away from the person until you come to terms of your anger, it is not healthy for you to stay upset with someone. In time this person will become insignificant and THAT is the best revenge. take care

You already said that it's not healthy for you

Let it go Suze, to wrongs don't ever make a right. It is done now that can never be changed but how you let it affect you can. Cherie is sooo right about negative thoughts create bad karma. Think of him and the problem in a large bubble in your hand, throw that bubble as hard as you can, and as it gets further away so does the person and the problem.

Forget about it, a waste of time and energy that is of no good use to you HUGS XX

i'm sure that most of us here have had thoughts of pouring sugar or jack daniels or whatever down someones gas tank. but it's best to just let it go. you don't want to carry that hatred around in you for the rest of your life. it just isn't healthy.

Suze, I have held resentment against several people in my life but i realized that it was only hurting me. I wrote about how i felt about each person and what they did to hurt me then I wrote about my part in each situation. In most of it I had to look at the fact that I allowed them to hurt me. I am very co-dependent and because of that I allow people to hurt me. I don't know the details of how you were hurt or if this person is still in your life, but I do know that hanging on to resentment only hurts you. You never can forget what they did, but you can try to get some understanding of the situation. The more you know the easier it is to let it go. If anything you learned what you want and what you don't want in a relationship. Focus on what you learned about yourself.

Grudges and revenge plans like that should ideally be saved for people who have bitch-slapped your parents or torched your house, not verbal disagreements. Although I openly admit that I am unsure as to what exactly has happened, it would be far more productive and healthy to not continue this and leave any bad feelings behind. I have no bad feelings towards either of you and know that Chuggs is a great guy.

Buddha says that revenge is like holding on to a hot coal with the purpose of throwing it at someone else....you are the one that gets burned.
I love this saying even though I am not buddhist.It is very wise and true.You will feel liberated if you can let go and just get over it.It is hard sometimes though.

I don't think revenge is a good idea.I think that it's a waste of time even though you may feel good for a little bit afterwords,in the long run you might end up regretting it.

I kinda believe forgiveness dispels the power that the object of your wrath has over you.

I would try and not hold a grudge ur whole life - i dont think it is worth the aggravation or the extra enery expended on begrudging that person. I say these things from experience. I have wasted lots o time in the past and now have decided to put my energy towards positive things. Hope this helps - take care peace and love!!!

I will look there is a psalm for revenge.
It is so awfull
That if you read this psalm and pray for those ill things to happen to him
You will change.
You will start to think
Well I don t want his sister to be eatin by camels
so on and so fourth. Before you know it you r hart will saften and you can turn your attention to those you could help.
I will look for that psalm.
Matt

I dont want revenge on her. I have hurt her very bad by teling her she is a trigger and to stay away from me.
I didnt do iton prpse to hurt her its just that sheis a trigger and I cant be put in a position where I go down not knowing for how long.

It might be common to bear a grudge your whole life through but I think it unhealthy. Forgiveness is the greatest gift you can give, not just to the other person, but most importantly, to yourself. It takes a lot of energy and committment to hold a grudge and plot revenge. Let go and let God. (Easier said than done, I know.)

Write down your feelings for this person on a piece of paper and then burn it. Get rid of those old thought and forget it. So true about the bad Karma and also the negative thoughts creep into your life. Just let God and let go...