I am so sorry about how you are feeling. I am hurting right now too. I completely understand about your spouse not being there for you, mine is the same way although he would rather work than help me get through my issues. if you need to chat we can.

my dog has learned to adapt to our floor plan. floor goes rug, wood, rug, wood. when he comes runnin' get gets traction on the carpet, slide across the wood, traction on the carpet, sllliiides across the wood. its hilarious!

Do you want to talk? I'm here if you feel like talking...maybe I can somehow cheer yo u up

I hope that you get to feeling better! Sorry I don't have much to say right now I am feeling mentally and emotionally drained!

Sis - your hubby DOES love you. I know he does. I've written you a huge message that I'm not going to repeat.

Please know - I love ya dear sis. I would do just about anything for you. You know that right??? You just name it.

(((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))

daft i can just see that and am laughing, mommafaith, my hubs works 7 days a week and at least 8 hours a day, so i know how you feel too

and tif and lisa thanks you guys are great just for repling and wanting to help

He sounds like I did after I detached from the ex. It took a lot of bad stuff from both of us, but I really withdrew. Her needs were transparent- literally. I would walk on broken glass for a buddy, but when she was low, she was a 'wimp' (in my mind, never said that). I placed male friendships above my marriage- "they were there before her, will be there after her".... I was a grade A asshole and knew no better. The good news is, I learned a LOT since, and he can too.

AWESOME post Coming. That is EXACTLY what she needs to hear!

Those are the words I've been trying to explain, but since I'm not a guy couldn't get them out right.

Thanks again Coming - it is awesome that you can explain it so well.

i knew i added you for a reason ctg, it was your great point of view and in put that made me request it thanks

Yeah, it's hard when you are down and the other person in the relationship needs space. Like you said, he's not a bad guy, but maybe he's feeling down a bit too, and helping someone out is making him feel better.

Just hang out with us, I am sure someone on here is very squirrelly tonight.

you said it tigard and he is not a bad guy and he is very depressed, so you got it perfectly, i just need some funny stuff to cheer me up for now

Okay, let me consult my little black book of dirty jokes, so lovingly given to me by my effeminate yet straight equadorian hairdresser.

What did the worm say to the caterpiller?

Who did you screw to get that fur coat?

Did you hear about the new viagra eye drops?

They make you look hard!

Why is a man like a hurricane?

Cuz you never know how big he is gonna be, or how long he'll last!