I have a big problem....I keep feeling manic and overspend. Unfortunately this comes from having the money from a settlement and wanting to spend it on my friends and husband....even my dogs! I feel like since I feel depressed when I spend money I feel better. I really need to get a handle on it because we will be deep in debt if I dont stop. I cannot do much because of the car accident I was in ....I cant even work so all I wanna do is spend my days on ebay and overstock.com!!! There are some great deals but I am buying stuff that we dont even need. I am conscious of what I am doing but I cannot stop. Any advice? Its hard for me to pick a hobby because what I like to do I cannot physically do it anymore. Even sitting at the computer besides the time I am spending hurts my back and neck! I have tried computer games but since I am depressed I am really not into them. I am really not into anything but spending! Now my husband wants to go with me to the psychiatrist which may not be a bad thing but we are constantly fighting over money...mainly him yelling at me.! I cannot take it when he yells....he says he is not yelling (just talking loudly) but he is really raising his voice. I feel alone in this and my husband does not understand. Do any of you feel the way I do? Please any encouragement would be nice. Thanks!
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