Do you think it's selfish to not want kids? Being a nanny for 8 years taught me how much of a responsibility kids are. I'm a selfish person and with kids, you have to let go of that. I don't want to. I also really love kids and I know there is a 50/50 chance of passing bp down to my kids. I don't want anyone to suffer as I have. I could get a donated egg so that chance is reduced, but i don't know. You add on months and months of no meds and the choice is harder. I don't have a very long time to think about this. Obviously it's not going to be in the next year, but I need to decide in the next 5-10 years if this is something I want. I guess if I met a man that I actually wanted to marry things might be different. Especially if he wanted kids.
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