My daughters father left me for another woman after cheating on me with her, he married her. Recently they got divorced, and now he's been calling me nonstop. I was broken hearted for 10 years and always thought I would take him back if it ever came down to it. Well, here it is in my face. When we parted it was extremely ugly. He said that she was younger and prettier than me and those words have always stuck with me. Now he says I should leave the past in the past and give him a chance to be a better mate and father to our daughter. By not taking him back he says I am denying our daughter a chance to be raised by both of her parents. The thing is I am still extremely attracted to him and I will always love him. I just cannot take him back, I know I will get hurt really badly if it doesn't work out. Well, if I dont want to get back with him, he says we should at least have sex because REMEMBER HOW HOT IT WAS? and it was. The thing is I am with a guy now that pays no attention to me and I am wondering what it would feel like to be paid attention to again. My bf and I have had sex three times in a year. He is cold and distant and very self absorbed. I think he could care less whether I was around or not. No, I'm not being dramatic it's all just the way it is. I am so desperate and lonely I've thought about giving in...What do I do? if anyone has anything to say please help as I am all alone in the world and don't have anyone to talk to besides the great people here at DS!!!Thank you guys.sorry so long!!!
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