Get him to see a pdoc and in therapy asap. IN the mean while, keep both eyen on him at all times. DO not leave him alone!!

I am sorry to say this and this would be a very difficult thing for you to do, but call the police. It will help both in the long run. The pain you feel is nothing compared to the pain the one being abused is feeling and will continue to feel the rest of his life. Get him help as well with a good counselor.

Don't call the police!! Do you really want to scare the shit out of him and scare him for life!!

If he really is having trouble het him to the ER for tratment...he is not a criminal, he is a confused and hurting child!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


You might also want to make his school teachers and other care givers aware...just to be safe.

I am sorry but as someone who was sexually abused as a child, no one is innocent. They are all criminals. Phoning the police will place him in the system to where he can get the help and realize that sexual abuse is wrong. Pure and simple. Report the abuse.

Oh MY! A very bad situation for all of you. Be careful and think things through, the 13 yr old could end up in Juevy for assalt and rape. he definatley needs help and so does the little one and you. Call a crisis line and see what options are available. This is truly a crisis.

I'm sorry, I didn't get that the abuse was current...

I take that back...

Call the police if necessary.

Please please let your 7 yr old know that what happened to him was wrong, and that you are very sad for him. That what his brother did was wrong and that you will make sure this doesn't happen again. Make sure he knows to scream his head off if anything like this occurs and that you will be there to help him. A friend of mine went thru this last yr it was a half bro and a 7yr old told the same thing. She walked in while it was happening and just went to pieces. The older one went to counseling and mom is ever vigilant and the younger one now has a lock on his door. So sorry for you.

Get counseling for both kids, not just for the 13 year old. You don't want the 7 year old thinking it is his fault, or thinking that this behavior is acceptable.

Sorry forgot to say younger boy got counseling too. But mom did such a good job of reassuring the 7 yr old he flew thru counseling and seems okay with it now.

I agree with Benson, being a victim also this is the best route for both of them. I work in Juvenile Hall most summers, can't spell it though, and young children like your 11 year old will be kept in solitary confinement with others. Usually that young they are there for arson, sex is the second reason.

Think about your victim son, do you want to spend years worried he will tell ONE school counselor or medical doctor???? Get it over with he will be locked up for a while, but stress the best treatment for him during the trial.

Do it now, or you will looked upon as being unparentable.

AMEN to Simon. Preach it. I only hope that she hears it. This business of not telling anyone and just getting counseling is for the birds. Only people who have never been abused would say that. Get the abuser into the system, and then get the victim into counseling. The system will take care of the abuser, and the parent can take care of them both. It's a hard decision but parenting involves making hard decisions.

You also have to consier, what if he does this to a child at school? He is now a public threat.

I don't know, I keep toying with the idea...

I think this is a matter of safety and law enforcement should be involved, but there has to be a better eay to do it than to have sirens flashing, handcuff, and police cars...I would think that would really scare him.

Take him to the ER tonight, explain to the doctors what the issue is, and then they can more privately call the police and get this taken care of.

But don't let this go another day.

Once a molester always a molester. Sorry get him locked up.

I'm sorry I just dont agree with that. I was sexually abused by my father, and he has never done it since. I agree that the predisposition is thre, but I don't think it is everyone.

You may have to consider that your 13 yr old has more than just BP.

I agree with the above answers. Get your children help ASAP, even if that means taking one away for a little while.