Bipolar Disorder Support Group

Bipolar disorder is not just a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders marked by periods of abnormally high energy and euphoria, often accompanied by bouts of clinical depression. This is the place to talk about your experience with bipolar disorder, learn from others' experiences, and find support.

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Loosing DS friends--

Hapless
Hapless
I know people come and go on here. The loss stinks but what do ya do when you feel like you have lost a friend who is still on your friends list. Right now, I feel like I have lost a couple of really good friends. Maybe it is just me, but it is weird.
dobiedots
dobiedots
It does feel weird. it's very sad. We get attached to people here.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm attached and I'm brand new.
deleted_user
deleted_user
i agree. sometimes it hurts bad.

sometimes people just need their time and space, i've learned.

like ... it's more about them than it is about you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Maybe its a glitch in time??
People go through phases and sometimes they change and grow in other directions. Im sure its not personal!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Been here since April and am on for at least half an hour every day....love it!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I know the feeling--I have lost a few and they are still on my friends list, too.

I sure would like to know what the heck I did to upset them!!!
Hapless
Hapless
I am not taking it personally. It just feels weird because I wonder if I have done anything to upset them especially when they are interacting with others like they used to do with you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You're probably right---I shouldn't take it personally either, I guess.

Still, it makes one wonder!!!
Hapless
Hapless
exactly!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
People do come and go. This is real life.. we're all REAL as hell. But, the material world as it is... there will be those who get swept up and away.
dancingd
dancingd
Yeah,I know what you mean...I was looking at my friends list the other day.Some people I've only heard from on the first contact.But I hesitate to delete anyone.I did that once,and heard back from the person.She had never message or hugged,nor ,had I ever seen any posts from her.It turned out ,she is a total recluse ,and reading our posts and repies are her only outlet in life.So,I keep everybody there anyway.
I wonder how many people out there in our cyber family are like that?We ,are there only outside contact with the world?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was scared then.I thought you meant friends actually dying !

This is okay.It'll be okay
deleted_user
deleted_user
Good Grief dancind---never looked at it from that point of view!!!

What insight you have! I won't delete another one, for sure!!! *blushing* Thanks dancingd
dancingd
dancingd
We are a bunch of diverse people here....some are very sadly alone and we are all they have.

Are we counting our blessings yet?:)
deleted_user
deleted_user
I just let people delete me !!
Well, that hurts ME
fr about 2 secs.
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