My family which includes my mother, father, 2 sisters and their husbands and their 3 children are taking a family vacation for 2 weeks. They have been planning this for over a year and are gong to stay at a hotel. My children who all live out of state, are also going. The oldest is flying to his grandparents house and the other 3 have had arrangements made to be met half way in Illinois. The problem is..I haven't been invited. Not one word from my parents. My children ask if I am going ...and I just keep making up excuses saying Mommy has to work and can't go. I feel so lost that my family feels this way about me. And part of me does not want my kids to go. I know I cant punish my kids for my parents ignorance but it hurts. What would you do? Im so angry and upset and cant even imagine how all of them can have a good time knowing what this is doing to me.
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