Bipolar Disorder Support Group

Bipolar disorder is not just a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders marked by periods of abnormally high energy and euphoria, often accompanied by bouts of clinical depression. This is the place to talk about your experience with bipolar disorder, learn from others' experiences, and find support.

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I WANT my boyfriend to understand me better....I want him to step up to the plate and help me! I want him to just come over and hold me and tell me that I'll get through this!
Instead - he ignores me. He changes his plans on me...we were going to go to Milwaukee next weekend for the art museum and the Mitchell Park Conservatory....I see now that he's committed to something else.

WHEN AM I GOING TO BE A FUCKING PRIORITY!?:!?!?!?!?!?! WHEN IS HE GOING TO OPEN HIS EYES!?!?!?!?!?! I NEED HELP!
deleted_user
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Have you actually addressed this issue with him directly? Biting your tongue only comes back to bite you in the ass.

Clear the air and make him commit to keeping to plans/arrangements that you make. If it continues then he is making is pretty clear what he thinks without saying a word.

Actions speak louder than words.
penny59
penny59
give him a taste of his own medicine...dont make him a priority..fuck him..sorry i got alittle hostile..
deleted_user
deleted_user
That's exactly the thing. I have written him a bullet-pointed letter explaining how he can "help me" as he's told me he wants to do.

The relationship is over, IMO. This is a source of stress and anxiety that I don't need.
deleted_user
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Stop making him a priority and he will either come back with his tail between his legs or you will find you really dont need him which is what I am betting. Or perhaps both will happen which is truly the best outcome as revenge is served up better cold
deleted_user
deleted_user
maybe you're right; maybe it's over if he really doesn't care then why be in a relationship. sorry to see you go thru this.
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