He has superficial friends.

That really sucks. That would have pissed me off royally. I'd probably say something along the lines of, "Fine, and why don't you go fck your ignorant self!"

Some people will never learn because they don't want to. I honestly believe they'll pay for their ignorance one day, which includes using the ill as a punching bag.

Start journaling so we can learn more about you.
We are only punching bags if we want to be.
I am glad you posted your question or post. By reading these or those I get stronger.
YOu are not a punching bag . neither are you a victim. Sometimes when we get better our spoused dont like the change. Give it a chance He will probably get use to you and ds. hopefully he will see improvements and come around. this is a great place to learn about yourself and this disease.
matt

My stbx recently said to me ...he didn't want to pay spousal support ,because he thinks I should just "work" more....GEESH....even the US GOV. acknowledges that I'm disabled,and can't work full time!!

Some times normal is stupid...at least BP's aren't usually stupid...irrational...but not stupid!LOL!!

he jst kicked the coffee table and says he doe'nt know where he stands with me anymore because I'm on this site . What a fagott. Hell I've only been back on meds for 1 week today. Should I disolve his sorry ass?

Fix him dog food surprise. for dinner tomorrow.lol
No dant do that reward good behavior ignore or punish bad.

Of course we are, but who cares? We have each other. MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS,...UNITE!!!

Why is he so angry for you being on this site? Is it that he wants to spend time with you, or what?

Dog food surprise is probably just the thing. I'll be all nice and quiet and serve the friggin dinner of delight. I know I will take joy in that . Does that make me sick or just a player?

I think he has a touch of the green eyed monster. Tell him to come and sit with you if he feels threatend :))

Revenge is not a game. Better not do that. Though its fun to think about.

I would but h's keeping it up. I guess I can't compete with you imaginary computer friends.
Now is the time to throw shit no wonder I have a bad temper, who the fuck does he think he is????? No one should ever have that much self esteem. Shall we crush the bastard?

Is it really worth having a fight over, I mean it is late and he probably wants you all to himself. Arguing won't solve anything coz you will both think that you are right. :))

He always has me to himself. I just have to hold on to my health in which a great part of it is you guys.Just something I have come to love just for me all of you. I don't get it why he finds this so offensive. I have never met another BP in my life. Or at least a BP that addmitted it. I guess I feel this is the first time I really have a chance. Just very tired of people using us as punching bags. Can we all make a pack of apologies very sincere and after that if you can't hang with us BP's get out of the race!
Thanks to all of you! BP Hell Yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My hubby used to get upset with me on here, but I said if you are so worried about me being on here when you know nothing about it, so I made him come and sit next to me to see what it is all about. Now he leaves me alone:))