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First we have not had relations in over a month. I come home and find that he has gone to this dirty website he likes to go to. I don't ever turn him down for sex, he just doesn't try anymore. I am 25 and he is 34. Is he over me? Does he hate me because of my BP?
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Maybe it's time to go in and talk to him,he's in is mid 40's with a hottie wife...maybe he's feeling insecure?
Have you tried talking to him about it?
Get in there and instigate yourself.
And looking at online porn is not exactly an uncommon occurance.
Suggestions I'd give to any friend is to talk to your therapist about it, possibly seek out marriage counseling, make sure you are following your BP plan, and maybe even confronting him about it.
He may have demons of his own that he doesn't want to look at - maybe being on the website helps him excape?
Best wishes to you and your marriage. I know how difficult it can be.
Oh my Lord, We have it almost nightly, am I a freak?
As for you...I agree with dizzy but that does not help much does it.
Have you tried to discuss this with him? Maybe ask him to go to your therapy appointment and then bring it up there with a moderator for help.
Do you attack him (Not being crude)?
If you have not discussed it with him, that is your first step for sure!
I'd talk to him about it, seriously. I have the same issue with my wife. She rejects me. We talked about it a few times and she tells me that she can't feel intimate with someone that is miserable alot. I know how you feel, believe me. It's been over 6 months for me. I'm sure he doesn't hate you. It's hard for them to make that connection when you're up & down with them. Have a heart to heart with him and tell him how you feel. Hopefully you get a reason that you can work thru. Hasn't helped me, but it is the only rational advice I could give. Good luck.
If it is the later, might be something to discuss with his Dr...may be lacking something...simple blood test would tell.
Does he snore? Tired alot during the day...could be sleep apnea if so which could make him too tired for sex at night.