My boyfriend and I have been together 3 1/2 years, and I have always been the one to bring up marriage. He keeps saying he wants to wait. Well, last night my therapist and I went over a lot of stuff. I got home and realized that I need to work out some issues before I get married. So I told my boyfriend that I think that he is right, that we should wait, that I want to wait. He got all shocked and then very sad. He said he was sad all day at work today thinking about it. He never thought he would hear me say that. He came home and was extra sweet and loving, and it made me sad. I want us to make it, so does he, he said that he can't imagine living in this house without me, that if we ever broke up that he would never date again. I figured he's be relieved to have the pressure off. He got afraid that I was having doubts about us. I said I wasn't sure, that I have to get my issues straightened out before I can ever get married. Now I have made him sad and I feel really bad. Has anyone else gone through this confusion?
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