Bipolar Disorder Support Group

Bipolar disorder is not just a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders marked by periods of abnormally high energy and euphoria, often accompanied by bouts of clinical depression. This is the place to talk about your experience with bipolar disorder, learn from others' experiences, and find support.

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how do I stop thinking?

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I'm not bipolar but my ex girlfriend is I miss her terribly and I can't help but think if I had gotten her away from her family that she would be alot happier and we'd still be together why do i feel like i have to take the blame?
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I don't know the circumstances of your situation, nor do I know your girlfriend's symptoms, so I can't really give you any advise... I'm sorry! But I am here to help in anyway I can!
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could we talk?
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Your ex is an adult I assume? She has to make her own choices, and family can be a powerful pull. Don't blame yourself. If you tried to help and it didn't work, you did the right thing.
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Sometimes circumstances tear people apart. Since its over, move on. Their are alot of people out their wanting good relationships. Try joining a social group of some type ie..gym, church, hobby group. Just when you think you'll never find anyone, someone will pop into your life. Don't place blame, be happy it ended before you wound up in a unstable marriage and in a divorce. If you think you've got problems as a boyfriend its nothing compared to the stress of lawyers, judges and financial ruin because of divorce. Don't beat yourself up, it takes two to end a relationship.
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Relationships are hard enough and most do end that is the point of dating to find THE ONE!!

Believe me she did you a favor. I wish I had ended my relationship with my husband before we got married. It has been a battle for him and me. Now 14 years later I can say it was worth it though I know I got the better end of the deal.

He is perfect. I think that is the problem he does nothing wrong ever. Well e tries to help me when sometimes I don't want it.

Don't blame her or yourself just say it was not meant to be!!!!

Peace love and Light
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