Ok so I got into a fight with my girlfriend this afternoon about where we were going to eat lunch, and while I know what I did and said and screamed was wrong, I know that it was because of a mood swing...but she doesn't understand that and I have asked her to read up on bipolar even offered for both of us to sit down and talk about it, told her to get on DS and find help there but she wont do it and I know that if she doesn't learn what to watch out for and what to do when I start to flip out then we are not going to work and I can't let that happen....she has stayed with me for over a year now with out any meds and now that I am back on the meds I know things will get better she wont let go of the past and learn from everything. (WOW) well now that I have that out, the real problem is I want her to cheer up and stop being mad at me for what happen, but she holds onto everything for so long because of the past, and well then that just flips me out even more and I start calling and showing up at her work and sending emails and what have you and I know that is wrong but then once well you all know what happens when you get mad or reach that high...what can I do to get her to sit down and study and what can I do to help myself...I know she loves me and wants to be with me because every time we break up she always comes back to me asking me why I can't be normal....someone please offer so advice. Thanks
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