This may sound mean to some people but I am trying to get rid of an ex who is not taking no for an answer. I finally went to a Pastor to make sure I was not wrong in what I was doing. He explained that it is not my job to take care of him in the ways I am trying. This gave me the strength to say no and do what is best for me. My mental health comes first. He is ill, maniputlative, financially strapped, needy and has needy children...etc. At first I felt guilty to turn my back on him but I know now I am taking care of myself and yes I can't fix or save him. Problem he called last night, left a message: I'd like to talk to you if I could? I'll speak to you soon. Advise needed: what to do? 1. Don't answer, 2. Answer and ask him not to call me again, 3. Send him an email or 4. Do not answer, ignore, do not respond at all? Please advise, from advise to past experience. This is a new one for me. Thank you.
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