oh, be nice to you :(

Happy birthday!!

Happy Birthday.

Wow, we're the same age, and you sound like me. I'm so bitter if you squeezed me and added sugar you'd have lemonade.

You can't be old! I'm older than you and I refuse to be old! (Happy Birthday)

hope you treat yourself for your b'day x

personally i'm digging my years, being young sucked, i'll be a cool old lady who can do whatever I want & not give a toot what anyone thinks ;)

Happy Birthday

Amen to lou2. I want to be a cool old lady who doesn't give a toot. One of those who wears pink bunny slippers to the store. Wait, I'm already that. (Just kidding, maybe). I don't guess I have the not giving a toot down.

No way, you really are too young to give up!! I am not married yet, either, and lived alone for many years. I kind of liked it, in fact I liked it so much that for the first year that I lived with my boyfriend, I had a terrible time adjusting. It was really hard, and still is at times. Sometimes I miss my old apartment. I had it so nice there, all to myself. Happy birthday.. my dad was the 5th, mine was the 8th, my boyfriend the 10th....yep, we rule!

bbibenson I'll drink a sherry or two with you when we get there :)

one more thing- my grandmother held yoga classes at her home at 90..I'm not kidding...age is a state of mind.

Happy Birthday, Seeking! Like Lou said, I'm actually embracing getting older too, since my teens & twenties have been completely nutz. I want to be a cool older & saner lady.

Still waiting for the saner part...

Oh lou2, a sherry or two won't cut it. You up for the entire bottle. We can tell battle stories and show some of our scars. Cause I don't know about you but I have been through some wars. That sherry will hit the spot.

Brilliant. Love that idea.

I just saw your post...Happy Birthday girl....your comments on your life ,made me feel sad.
I hope things change for you sweetie.Cyber friends are great,but nothing like a flesh and blood bod to hang onto....don't you even have a woman friend you can turn to?