They buried my x-husband today, he was 45 and died of cancer, lung, liver, brain and alcoholism. I'm really having problems dealing with this. My husband and I both worked with him in bands in the late 80's and 90's and I was married to him for 4 years. We had alot of problems in our marriage because of my bipolar condition and his alcoholism and we finally just split. He married a woman with kids, who I might ad put their names in the obituary as children rather than step children. I really don't like her. She destroyed his music career. He was a talented and gifted song writer and I and my current husband wrote and recorded many beautiful songs with him in the 4 years I was married to him. I'm really upset and I can't talk to anyone about this. Can you please help me.