today i received an email message from within this community from guy who is 56 years old. he asked if i was looking for a date. in other words, on a site dedicated to fostering a safe environment for those who obviously have some vulnerabilities, this asshole thinks it would be cute to hit on me. i wonder if he took the time to read my "story" in the Sexual Abuse section. the fact that i have had repeated traumatic experiences with nasty older men seeking their homoerotic thrills. or if he took the time to read my first journal entry and see that I DO have a girlfriend. i am heterosexual. maybe all of this just turned him on. schmuck! i am in no way homophobic, but this idiot's overture on came across as crass, insensitive, irresponsible and just plain ignorant. you know who you are. get a clue sir.