i say go for it, why the hell not?

cause I cant take the hurt

Okay are you in love with the bp one or someone else?

in love with a new bp, but do BP to BP relationships work?

If you don't try you will be alone anyways. Sometimes you have to go thru alot of wrong loves to find the right one.

What do you want us to do, lend you a hand maybe??

I understand. It sucks. But, know what? Although this won't help right now, it's really best to find you and take care of you before finding her. You both deserve that. I'm speaking from my own experience. Once I "got healthy" (taking meds, seeking therapy, working on "me") I found my soul mate.

Still, I know it sucks. Just glad you can come here to vent and chat. :)

Well from what I've read on here there are some bp normie marriages that aren't doing too well either. You take chances with love any way you cut it.

always thought only a BP could get me, but schweet and me have been together 12 yrs, and she is non-BP, and she gets me more than anyone else in the world... i dunno, i just think about being depressed while "she" is manic or vice versa... or maybe like how women who live together get "that way" at the same time... would you both cycle together? then can someone who is cycling handle your cycling...
either way, go for it... it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all....

someone asked what do you want...


guess what some advice maybe? I hate being alnoe, but i hate gettin fucked worse....anI the only one that wants love?

so TAKE love if you want it (I have it already, and it rocks)

love doesnt knock twice!

just go for it and stop second guessing everything

that was advice, btw, as asked for, good or bad

I would do it, take it slow, no need to rush into anything. It may be hard at first, but it makes the chances of being hurt lower. But you should give it a go and see what happens, with lessened expectations. :o)

Go on dip your toe in, if the waters feel nice then jump in!!!! Give it ago or you will never know :)) Otherwise you will be kicking yourself going what if?????

Sick! If anyone writes "fuck" as a title I come out of my coffin and am compelled to respond.
Think of it this way. Being bp is like looking at life through a pair of 3 d glasses that you can't take off. What could possibly be better that having the person next to you seeing the same amusing but distorted images. I am married to someone who is completely healthy... at times it creates problems way worse than someone that understands what you are feeling. as long as you are sympathetic to when she is down... then WTF... live life to its fullest. there is no way for us to be normal, why not share it with someone that understands.