I have this friend who is also BP, he acts like a fucking 5 yr old kid sometimes, Ive tried to set boundaries before because he is very invasive, and I also dont like to do that to him because I feel like a hypocrit. Lately he's been calling me like every two days or so and leaves messages, not once but twice and at all hours because hes very unstable, he always wants me to talk to him for 5 hrs straight when i have shit to do because I HAVE A FUCKING LIFE and he is a 30 yr old virgin bachelor who still has mommy and daddy clean, feed him, do his laundry and give him cigarette. The last time Ive tried to set boundaries he took it the wrong way and became defensive, he is starting to piss my husband off, so my husband wrote him an email ( not a nasty one) letting him know of his boundaries and to respect us and our boundaries and that I am not his personal fucking nurse to take care of him all the time, I have problems too for shit sakes !!!!!!!! I know hes not taking meds because hes all over the freaking map, and hes so needy and i cant stand it!!! I just had to get this off my chest before i blow a gaskit
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