Sometimes it's just an effort to post. My mind is such a blank at the moment. I'm sure people appreciate your input.

I haven't seen any clicks on here. Instead, I have seen people who care about people. God that sounded like a 1970's song. Keep trying. People will warm up to you you. I am still trying. After over a moth, they are just now starting to warm up to me. Hang in there.

if people ignored u they didn't mean to

You are half right. Find the other half they are there!i'm one.

I have been a member since the 9th of this month and sometimes I have felt the same way that you do, thinking I'm still misunderstood. But if you give it time you will find friends who understand exactly where your coming from. I also pull information from posts, sometimes I reply, sometimes I just read. Give it time and I think you will find more help here and understanding than I have found in along time.

Thank you SuzieQ, Im sorry That Im btchy. Quess I had hope to connect with more people than I have. Thank you

not a clique in here... just takes time to notice the good things when you're down. when I got here I just posted what I thought I need to work on at the time. I've come to know some people over time and I usually look for their posts and their topics yes I do.. but that is because I can relate to those particular people at the time while I also look beyond those who I'm familiar with and reach out to them too. Sometimes people will post something that is vaque somehow or other to me..or that I can't relate to and so I don't post. I could go on but that's all for now.

Guys, Sorry I just got an emergency call. I have to go but Ill get back with ya soon... Sorry!!

Oh another thing is that we're all moody. Sorry if that hurts ppl's feelings it was not my intention. Sometimes we need more attention than we receive or we feel a low self esteem based on the # of replies. I for one have started topics where I receive a few posts or some where there are a good # of responses. It's not YOU that causes ppl to not respond or to respond generally but what your choice of topic is. Because everyone relates to something and it's best to try to find a generalized topic IMHO.

Sometimes people read and absorb and are left speechless other times they are unable to respond for what ever reason. That doesnt mean your message isnt getting throught. And over time as you post more you become more familiar to the people that are here and they begin to trust... all of us here have multiple issues and especially trust. It takes time to build that trust and for people to learn your humor your good times and bad your sarcasum. I used to feel like I didnt fit in and even now I often feel unnoticed. I have BPD and so I have issues feeling like I fit in any where even a cyber place. Take what you need from here and your friendships will grow slowly but surely, even if with only a few key people to you. This board is like a huge school campus you wont click with everyone but you will surely click with some and thats the important thing. Talk away some one will listen

i've been here since august. i still feel that way sometimes. i really don't think anyone does it purposely but some on here are much closer to each other than others. i know i have people that i'm closer to. it still hurts my feelings a lil bit sometimes when a few good friends get into a conversation and i know i'm still on the outside lookin in. i'm extremely insecure so i know i read to much into things. this is a good place and the people here are amazing. i'm glad your here and i appreciate the hugs and support you gave me yesterday. peace xx

I'm sorry that you have been feeling left out. I don't think there's a clique here. I have to admit, though, when I'm feeling depressed I DO look for certain people to lift me up. hang in there, we want you here!

i dont seem to fit in here either .

I've never thought that, but I'm sorry you are. I know it hurts when you think no one seems to care about what you have to say, but I'll bet people do care.

Stick around and give it time. Me, I just jumped right in and posted all over the place, and if no one replied, well, I'd go on to the next thing.

Oh, sweetie, there are no clicks here....it's just the posts come fast and furious since there are so many of us. Honest...keep posting and you will be heard.
Love, B