i'm sorry lilly...

take a deep breath, think it through. it'll be ok, everything always finds a way to work itself out.

chill, clear your mind, think it through.

xx

I know that feeling...one more thing on top of so many. Call them and let them know what happened if you haven't yet. I've had that happen more than once when my son recieved SSI and I forgot all about sending in paperwork requested or worse, threw all my mail in a pile and didn't know that I needed to send it in. I called in immediately, explained and after bringing in the required paperwork the disability checks were mailed and insurance wasn't cut off.

I'm so sorry you're having such a difficult time. Hope Life lightens up on you soon. Hugs.

I just talked to my husbend he is so over whlamed by the hole thing he cant handel it so I told him to bring the papers to me I will fill them out and get all the Dr. juck together. God it is hard to be the crazy one and have to handel everthing. Like I am normail

This sounds like a very difficult situation for you. I am sorry you have to be in the middle of it. At this point you cant change what has been done but you can find out what you can do to correct the situation and re-instate benefits. If you have been financially stable, there shouldnt be a chance of you loosing the house before he can be reinstated and they will probalbly go retroactive to the day benefits stopped. Sometimes we have to make some hard decisions. I know how hard it is to deal with a child and let go of responsibility for them once they are old enough to make their own decision. But, as parents, we have to make our children accountable. Hopefully your step son is helping you financially. I cant say I would approve of a girlfriend living with us too, however I do realize that as your stepson, you dont have alot of control over that decision. Talk to your husband and communicate your feelings to him. Dont let your frustration fester and cause worse feelings later. He has to know how you feel about the situation, then maybe together you can come up with an agreeable decision. Hugs

I'm so sorry...you're in my thoughts and prayers about this, hon! I hope things get better soon...

Yes, in our thoughts and prayers. Yours is a tough situation. As CAM76 said... take a breath, think it through and it'll be ok.

i have been keeping-up on one of the news stories and if you call your mortgage company now, before the possible problem with your disability checks, then you will acting proactively. Just remember to write the day, time and the person to whom you spoke down in a folder. Help is on its way! Believe it.

So sorry. wish i had the answer.

Ouch! (looking downward totally clueless on what to say)

On the up side I went on my lunch and got all the Dr's geting all his records together I will pick them up after wotk and I made an apointment with his primary for thursday to fill out the papers shouldent be to bad with the leg work all done.

I am so sorry! I hate the way bad things seem to snowball and get out of control. Bless you hon and i hope santa throws money down the chimney!!

Good Grief !