What do you do when you're alone all day? Please don't talk about a hobby or reading. I do that already, but the same 4 walls surround me. Anyway, asked husband about how he has friends and I don't. He said the driving situation is a problem(also my 1 friend is at work during day and his male friends seem to be mine). Not sure how this portion of the conversation led to our intimacy, but I must have asked a question that triggered stuff he holds back because he fears it might make me due something crazy. He stated, that as he has gotten older(43) his libido comes and goes so looking at porn helps to jump start him. He also told me that his libido is related to how irrational he considers me at times. That stunk. He is always kind an supportive, but I guess that only goes so far. He says I was better during summer when kids were there. I really don't see a difference now they are in school. Still same old same old. Help?
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