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Dancing At Weddings Hahaha

deleted_user
deleted_user
Lighten it up.Chill.


How do you dance at weddings ? Do you hassle the DJ ? Or Band ?

I used to be okay.A few moves with a beer in my hand.Now it's a bit likr the sad uncle moves !! Then get drunk Haha

How do you dance and behave at a wedding ?


It could be from BEFORE you were diagnosed too ?
dancingd
dancingd
I was so brilliantly wonderfull...I stood up the Bride!!

But I never wore a lamp shade,that's just too much....well maybe at a Greek wedding it would be ok?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Did ya really go for it ?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hate to sit down..I love dancing. The only time I eat cake is at a wedding or birthday. *stomach is growling now* It's time that someone gets hitched.. devising a plan to play matchmaker so I can shake my buns and eat cake.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hhahahahaha I like yr STYLE
dobiedots
dobiedots
Gee, you just do. It's not rocket science. Don't drink if it makes you act too goofy.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I avoid weddings at all costs because they are soooooooooo depressing. The last one I went to ( my brother's wedding 4 yrs ago) I was drunk the whole weekend and did nothing but cry because I am lonely and it was making me sick to watch all the happy couples having fun. I have quit drinking and I now avoid weddings, baby showers...etc all they do is depress me.
dobiedots
dobiedots
I avoid them because I know the "happy couple" will be divorced in a few short years. It seems like such a waste of money and energy.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I do go but I just stay in my corner.I act as if I'm having a great time.I have no choice but to drink to avoid the questioning.
I try to dance but I look too fucking miserable so I go outside and smoke.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I was too sad, miserable and drunk to dance. So when I wasn't at the bar drinking I was outside smoking.
dancingd
dancingd
Come to think of it...I've been to only one party since Dx...I sat at the table watching everyone dance and drink(I wasn't doing either)....and I hated them for being so care free.NOT a healthy mind set for sure!
deleted_user
deleted_user
So that's ALL of us outside smoking !!!! HAHAHA
deleted_user
deleted_user
yup thats me.. outside smoking with a drink in my hand. i dont do large social gatherings well.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't smoke.. I'm hiding in the cake!
deleted_user
deleted_user
First off I'm lucky if I make it TO the wedding. And no, I am wayyyyyy too shy to dance. I stand at the edge of the crowd, and plan my exit strategy.
deleted_user
deleted_user
get drunk, dance my ass off, wave a beer around the dance floor.
AND sneak outside to smoke.
now that I am not drinking anymore (Thanks BP!!) i can only hope i do the same...with sparkling cider!
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