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Close your eyes, please

deleted_user
deleted_user
So guys tend to be visual and like the lights on and your and their eyes open during sex.
How romantic.
I personally like to "feel" what's happening and use the feeling to ride the wave of ecstacy. You don't have to turn off the lights but at least make them interesting...colored lights, gently strobing lights, the flicker of candlelight or a nice fire in the fireplace or even some black light but do SOMETHING. And I like other sensual pleasures like soft sheets, suede covers, the sound of a waterfall or music playing, the soft scent of roses or lavendar (and NOT cheap bathroom cologne for God's sake)....anything but "uhn, uhn, *grunt*, aint' that what you like baby? Huh?"
Men.
tommymott
tommymott
You do yourself and all men a disservice by giving the same characteristics to all. It shouldn't be hard to find what you want.
deleted_user
deleted_user
alrighty then.. (:
deleted_user
deleted_user
Are you one of those rare men Tommy? Do you like to close your eyes and "feel" what's going on?
dobiedots
dobiedots
I never found menn keeping their eyes open? I always check too. What gives?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Have you had a bad time of it lately with men Anna? I'm being sincere here
tommymott
tommymott
Well, after my last divorce I swore off and at women. But I remember, and I know what I like. There are lots of guys who like the same things you do, you just have to find them.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Dureing sex with hubby i always look down at him to see if he is peeking or closed. I have found that he looks at me untill I look at him .. its pretty funny. He said that if he looks too much he wont be able to "hold it back". i completely understand since i am a sexy sexy bitch
deleted_user
deleted_user
I guess I have been w/the wrong men. Or maybe I just don't feel sexy but the men don't help any. I would say there's been one man out of 100 that was beautiful and sexy and made me feel the same. I read where men tend to be visual...well so am I but I don't stare at a guy during sex. Guess I'm wondering if all men are so blunt. Maybe I should hand out "how to romance a girl" manuals? Seriously if you know of any, I'll give it to my husband. Or would that be too rude?
deleted_user
deleted_user
You should be more comfortable with yourself ..esp when your married !! He loves you and you should be happy he wants to look at you in the throws of passion .. I cant believe i just said "throws of passion" ..should we throw each other in the sack ?
deleted_user
deleted_user
You're probably right but we never DO anything together but sex. Most women would die for a man that cuddles but I grow tired of laying around so much. He likes when we walk around naked, too but I get tired of getting pawed at. I'm comfortable w/my body, I just don't like getting so much attention all the time from men. I used to be very sexual but I don't care any more. Maybe I need some female viagra to be more "normal" and horny all the time like everyone else.
deleted_user
deleted_user
We're not going to have the same level of desire all the time that our mates have..but when it comes together..WATCH OUT!
dobiedots
dobiedots
that's why NEW relationships are the best. That level matches up then.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Now go clean your nose
deleted_user
deleted_user
is it possible to be hyper sexual while completly depressed ?? I did some weekend research and I think i may have something here ..
deleted_user
deleted_user
your avatar is cracking me up, kristine!
Yes I think you can be hypersexual while depressed...physical and mental can work seperately.
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