Bipolar Disorder Support Group
Bipolar disorder is not just a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders marked by periods of abnormally high energy and euphoria, often accompanied by bouts of clinical depression. This is the place to talk about your experience with bipolar disorder, learn from others' experiences, and find support.

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Anxiety weighs down the human heart, but a good word cheers it up.
-Proverbs 12:25 (NRSV)
I flipped through to the sports page, wondering what had happened at the cricket match. "Muralitharan fails to get 10 wickets," declared the headline. Muralitharan was the star bowler for the Sri Lankan cricket team. Much further down, in much smaller print, the article reported that Muralitharan had taken several wickets. Indignation rose hot and strong within me. Why had the headline focused on what the bowler failed to do? Why hadn't the sportswriter praised the man for what he accomplished?
Then my mind flashed back to the night before. I had found fault with my husband for forgetting one item on the grocery list. My cheeks felt hot as I remembered that I had not even thanked him for the bags of groceries he had carried upstairs. Before saying both "Sorry" and "Thank you" to my husband, I asked God to keep reminding me to choose to praise rather than to nitpick, to commend rather than to criticize.
Tanya Ferdinandusz (Colombo, Sri Lanka)
-Proverbs 12:25 (NRSV)
I flipped through to the sports page, wondering what had happened at the cricket match. "Muralitharan fails to get 10 wickets," declared the headline. Muralitharan was the star bowler for the Sri Lankan cricket team. Much further down, in much smaller print, the article reported that Muralitharan had taken several wickets. Indignation rose hot and strong within me. Why had the headline focused on what the bowler failed to do? Why hadn't the sportswriter praised the man for what he accomplished?
Then my mind flashed back to the night before. I had found fault with my husband for forgetting one item on the grocery list. My cheeks felt hot as I remembered that I had not even thanked him for the bags of groceries he had carried upstairs. Before saying both "Sorry" and "Thank you" to my husband, I asked God to keep reminding me to choose to praise rather than to nitpick, to commend rather than to criticize.
Tanya Ferdinandusz (Colombo, Sri Lanka)
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