I posted a few weeks ago and told the story of my wife who I have been through hell and back with. She finally got to the doctor friday and was officially diagnosed BP, we had just assumed when everything started. She is going to start therapy friday and she is on medication which seems to be helping some. Here is my issue. I love her to death and told her I can put all the past in the past. She has lied cheated, basically you name it she has done it to me. She has moved in with another guy while we have been seperated. An older friend, she finally told me it had been more which I had figured. She said she wants are marriage to work, but she has a fear of facing me because she knows everything she has done to me and doesn;t understand why I don't hate her. She says since 2 weeks before doc and since she has not been intimate with him? Who knows. I talked to her today and asked her to move out so we can start sealing with her illness together to start our future together and learning to work with this together. She said right now she feels safe there because he doesn't know any of her history. The past is done but this hurts more. Should I just wait for awhile longer and see if she comes around. It is ripping me up but everything that has happened in the past is more understandable now. She sadi she wants me to go to a session with her where she will be forced to face me and talk to me. Am I just being gullable because I love her so much, should I let go or try and wait it out. Should on put any time limit on her getting out of there or will that just make it worse. Any suggestions or comments are appreciated. I am trying to do anything I can for her to make her life better and hopefully have ours together.
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