I don't, EB, though I have often thought that the 12 step programs are good for just about any major problem that we face. There are "double trouble" groups -- for people who both have mental illnesses and substance abuse problems (since medications might be seen as a "crutch" in regular AA groups). And I hear their are "Emotions Anonymous" groups, though I have never been to one and don't know that they are as effective as other groups.
I did go to a Codependent's Anonymous group for a while that was actually quite good, though I did not engage in it to the degree that would have been helpful. Since you are married to an alcoholic, you might want to try something like that and see if you can't work it for both issues?

Dual Diagnosis groups are great for working the program. I entered into AA for support with that issue and found a Dual Diagnosis group that was phenominal, I would suggest the Dual Diagnosis groups to anyone who is interested in a new approach to living with their illness.

They had a 12 Step Programme for Mental Health, that was derived from the AA 12 step programme. It could be worked at alone.

i stumbled onto the 12 steps about 8 years ago, while piddling around online. I don't have an addictive personality but I found the message of the 12 steps to be very helpful. I participate in an online all A's group from time to time. I run into other bipolars there, they usually are also alcoholic or something so i guess i don't really fit in completely but they are friendly folks and make me feel welcome. It's a good program and really does have a lot to say to a bipolar person!!

I go to a 12 step program, AA as a matter of fact. I get sidetracked with my bipolar disorder so often I miss way to many meetings. I guess I really don't care because I have been clean and sober for many years.

You can talk to your therapist about this first, or just go and not share anything?

I apply the 12 steps to BP and many other areas of my life.

Watch out for them 13th steppers !