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BF troubles=(

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i have a bit of a problem, i met my bf online and we have been "together" for a few months, and we have known eachother for longer. the thing is, he lied to me a few times about big things, no white lies, big huge lies! he admited to it a few weeks back. he has mad e me feel so much better ever since we got together, i havent felt like shit in a long time, i havent had depressed days. i want to know if i should stay with him, or go back to just being friends. another thing is that im afraid of what he will do if i break up with him. i would do it in a very careful and caring way...but i just dont know what he would do. i hate making people feel bad=(
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From personal experience, best to end it early on than wait for even bigger lies to surface. I hate making people sad, but I'm worth more than someone who lies to me.
I'm certain there are other people out there for you. But, honestly...it's best to love ourselves first without having to look to someone else to love us.
Experience shows me that taking care of myself and living a healthy life will attract like-minded people.
Good luck to you.
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If he's telling lies now, get rid of him. You will not be able to trust and without trust there is no basis for a good relationship. Why are you afraid of what he'll do? Is he suicidal or has he threatened you?
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he has very low self esteem, he might hurt himself or something worse. and the only reason he lied is cus he has a low self esteem
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More reason to leave, Deja-
If you can, steer him in the direction of help. I know how tough it is, but you have to do what's best for you. If he threatens to hurt himself, I hope you can just get him help.
Staying with someone for fear they will hurt themself is hurting you both. I do wish you the best. I know it's a tough situation. Breana is right though - without trust you have no respect. Without respect you have no relationship. Take it from us that have been around longer. xoxo
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dont waste anymore time hey....its ok to lie little white lies cause your too embarrased at the start of something but if it was me and the person i was seeing told me big huge whopping lies i dont think i could handle it.....i would never be able to trust him again and trust is a big issue in a relationship and shouldnt be under rated. its unfortunate but the more time you waste with him the less time you have in meeting mr right
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