Yesterday i argued on the phone with my daughter's father wife today i feel just so warned out. Her thing is that when he comes out of jail in 7 months he is gonna be the best dad on earth and she is gonna make sure of it and she didn't have her dad in her life when she was a little girl now that she is 27 her dad is there for her whenever need be. She says she doesn't even have to ask he offers her everything that she needs My thing is that why would it have to take so long for my daughter to be in a relationship with her dad. He is in jail but this lady has just had a relationship for 3 years in jail and already feels that he is a changed man. My thing is i as a parent wants to protect my daughter from all the pain that he has put her through as far as not being there for her. I have known him longer and I know how he is. She somehow thinks that she can force a man to do something. Me and my daughter is use to not having him around and not being there for her birthday's and as well as not even being there at her ceremonies at school and even worst when she broke her leg :( She tells me to put all that behind and just work on the future how do i do that when that is all i have known him to do?? I am confused as well as stressed out u name it. I also had one of my friends over that was here last night when she called and she does not even agree with me allowing my daughter to visit him in jail so while i was talking to his wife she was saying her part in the background which made it all the worst. At this moment I have no clue what to do :( Please respond to this i feel i am losing it :(
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