I am just wondering how many people go through situations similar or the same as what I go through at times, and how you deal with them. This is my situation.....I am an entertainer. Singer, actress, model; therefore am quite well known by the community. I always try to be polite and pleasent with people that speak to me, but every once in awhile there comes along that person that just annoys the shit out of me by being really pushy and avoiding my space to the point of being rude. Because of my involvement in the performing arts in the area, I don't like to make a scene and make myself look like them. Of course people like that are a very big trigger for me and there was a time that I would blow at the drop of a pin. I had this happen last night while spending an enjoyable evening with some friends until one of these people showed up. It got to the point that I had to come right out and say "I DON"T LIKE YOU AND YOU AND YOU ARE ALSO IRRITATING MY FRIENDS." I then moved to another table with some other friends and he followed me and threatened me. One of my friends stood up to him and went to talk to him and she let him know to leave me alone. Why do some people have to be so rude? People who have known me for some time, seem to know to do a quick observation of my mood and know not to trigger me. I said to one friend "I must need a shirt that says I have bi-polar and Boarderline Personality Disorder....Please don't force gear changes." Does anybody else have any input on stuff like this?
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