I'd like to know your opinion am I right or wrong? I have a son who is 20 years old. He has adhd and organizational issues that goes along with adhd. I say he is perfectly capable of setting his alarm clock for 6 am and getting up himself for school and fixing his own breakfast. My husband says "Why wouldn't you want to help him?" argh because he's 20 and capable of doing it himself he just wishes to rely on others be codependent I guess you could say. This is really becoming a kind of rift between me and hubby. I could get up at 6 am yell at DS to get up and continue to yell at him to get up (he is hard to get up) but I'd rather leave the responsibility to him (DS) and forget the yelling. Honestly sometimes I hate dealing with DS. Maybe I am wrong maybe I should get up and make sure he gets off at 7:30 like he is supposed to but for gosh sakes he's got to learn sometime to take responsibility for himself in this regard.
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